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The City That Married Us

The City That Married Us

A Copenhagen Travel Diary — and What I Wore Each Day

Copenhagen has always held a special place in my heart. We married there in February 2020, just weeks before the world closed. The sweetest, quiet little ceremony in city hall that, within our 15-minute slot, felt like we were the only couple that mattered.

This summer, we went back. As three.

Taking our son to the city where his parents became a family felt like something I hadn't quite prepared myself for emotionally. He doesn't know what Copenhagen means yet. 

But he will. And until then, we got to see it completely through his eyes — the aquarium, the parks, the pigeons he chased that reminded us of the photo on our bedside table, pictured below.

 

 

I also wore a different combination of Hillary Alexandria charms each day. Because that's what this collection was made for: real life, in motion, layered exactly as it is.

Here's how the five days looked.


Arrival

We arrived and did what you do when you arrive somewhere with a toddler: found the nearest park and let him run. Copenhagen is extraordinary for this — green, unhurried, designed as if children were part of the brief.

I kept it simple on Day 1. Arrival days call for pieces that travel well and land right. 

Wearing: Ever Silver Blue Topaz Earring charms & Tori Silver Charm


Where We Married


We took him to the place where we got married. I think he understood more than I expected — he announced, very seriously, that he would also like to get married one day. I told him he absolutely could. Then he ran in circles around the ground floor of city hall while my heart quietly came apart at how special the moment truly was.

Wearing: Ever Silver Blue Topaz Earring charms & Tori Silver Charm


The Streets We Know



We walked streets we had walked before — just the two of us, the first time. The same cobblestones, the same light. Different, because now we were three, and one of us was running ahead and needed to be retrieved from a doorway every four minutes.

Wearing: Maxi Peridot Charm


The Aquarium

The aquarium was his idea, in the way toddlers have ideas — insistently and without context. He really wanted to see the sea turtles, so we went. He pressed his face against every tank. He pointed at things with a focus I recognised as my own.


The Last Morning

Our last morning we had breakfast at a bakery I'd been eyeing since we arrived. We discovered that my son loves soft boiled eggs (just like Peppa Pig), and met a lovely older couple from Australia who shared their parenting stories with us. We explored a little more, then headed to the airport to go home.

Wearing: Tori gold Charm & Maxi Pink Tourmaline Charm 


On Wearing the Collection While Traveling

What I came back knowing more clearly is that modular jewelry was made for trips like this one. You pack fewer pieces and style more combinations. Two or three Ever earring charms  on different hoops across five days. The same necklace layered differently each morning paired with the Maxi necklace charms and/or Tori charms depending on how I felt when I woke up.

That's what the Hillary Alexandria modular charm system is designed for — not the static moment, but the life around it. The aquarium and the cobblestones and the stick he found and the look over his head at a place where something important happened.

You don't need a different jewelry wardrobe for every version of your life. You need pieces that move with you through all of it.

Explore the modular charm collection at hillaryalexandria.com

Shop the Collection 


Hillary Alexandria is a female-founded, Black-owned fine jewelry brand based in Berlin, handcrafted by artisans in Spain.

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